Its Complicated

Ive recently discovered that falling in love truly complicates things. ive been contemplating how two people with very different lifestyles and interests, goals, and ambitions are expected to come together to form something new in which both parties still maintain the characteristics that makes them, them as well as their life goals and dreams. How much compromise is expected? where do you draw the line? how do you even begin to start a life together that fulfills both people? Is there that one person thats always compromising and is the push-over? How do you decide whats selfish and what's something thats really important to you? As im pondering all these things and processing, part of me realizes that life was much simpler being single and in a sense longs for that. Ive also realized that being in a relationship maginifies all the bad things about you, like how impatient you are, how stubborn you can be, and just how unruly the tongue can be if not kept in constant check.